Undersexed

[Coldilocks]

Lately I've been feeling really low sex drive. My boyfriend is amazingly respectful of it - he's all "Honey, I understand, I can wait until you feel like it," but I am impatient with myself. I don't know if it's my meds, seasonal affective disorder, stress or maybe I'm just not that into my boyfriend.

[caminante]

I hear ya—I'm at a similar place with my boyfriend. Like you, I don't know if it's because of meds I'm taking, SAD because of winter weather, stress, our relationship issues, or is purely a lack of attraction. Even though he has been really understanding, I feel guilty.

[cry baby]

I had no sex drive while on my meds, but started smoking pot before bed & it is an instant aphrodisiac. May or may not work for you, but could be worth a try.