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- November 18th, 2023, 3:54 pm
- Forum: Podcast Episodes/Surveys
- Topic: Do you listen to the podcast / Support the podcast
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3433
Do you listen to the podcast / Support the podcast
I'm guessing if you are on this forum you are probably listening to the podcast. If not, please be aware that Paul decided to walk away from BetterHelp as a sponsor due to ethical issues (which I very much applaud him for!) However, this has left the podcast in a very difficult place financially and...
- August 3rd, 2023, 10:43 am
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: Mental health: living according to values and principles: 2017 and now.
- Replies: 33
- Views: 5864
Re: Mental health: living according to values and principles: 2017 and now.
Hope it works out, Oak!
- July 24th, 2023, 11:44 am
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2015
Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear
To me, the hardest part of doing things differently is the shouting inner critic saying that I failed because I did not sort these things out 20+ years ago. I realize these are only thoughts and feelings and they can pass by. I am using self-compassion by working through the hard feelings by working...
- July 24th, 2023, 3:31 am
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2015
Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear
Thank you Mental Fairy, that is a great story. I will hold it with me.
- July 23rd, 2023, 2:34 pm
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2015
Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear
Thanks Oak. This is not easy, is it? Thanks for your reply. [quote=oak post_id=54366 time=1690148897 user_id=2526] [quote=gfyourself post_id=54363 time=1690143125 user_id=2414] … It likes to keep everything the same because it thinks it is helping me. Doing nothing equals avoiding pain. But really i...
- July 23rd, 2023, 2:30 pm
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2015
Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear
Thank you Mental Fairy. The shame comes from things like Not standing up for myself in the past Not "going for it" Not rebelling against my parents (though perhaps I can give myself a break on that one) Not establishing goals and trying to achieve them, realizing that the journey is import...
- July 23rd, 2023, 12:12 pm
- Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
- Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
- Replies: 7
- Views: 2015
I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
Hello all, its been awhile. I"m an occasional lurker but haven't posted in a long time. Feels like there is a devoted community of a handful of people here... is it 5, 10, 15, 20, 50? Anyway, doesn't really matter the size, I am impressed with the consistency! Anyway, Regarding the subject line...
- May 15th, 2022, 1:51 pm
- Forum: Express Yourself
- Topic: Do you ever correspond with Paul?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 6679
Re: Do you ever correspond with Paul?
Haha well he is a big deal!
- May 14th, 2022, 1:19 pm
- Forum: Express Yourself
- Topic: Do you ever correspond with Paul?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 6679
Do you ever correspond with Paul?
Too bad he does not come in the forum.
- October 24th, 2021, 1:31 pm
- Forum: Podcast Episodes/Surveys
- Topic: #562
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1291
Re: #562
Amazing voice.