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by gfyourself
November 18th, 2023, 3:54 pm
Forum: Podcast Episodes/Surveys
Topic: Do you listen to the podcast / Support the podcast
Replies: 1
Views: 2559

Do you listen to the podcast / Support the podcast

I'm guessing if you are on this forum you are probably listening to the podcast. If not, please be aware that Paul decided to walk away from BetterHelp as a sponsor due to ethical issues (which I very much applaud him for!) However, this has left the podcast in a very difficult place financially and...
by gfyourself
July 24th, 2023, 11:44 am
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
Replies: 7
Views: 1194

Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear

To me, the hardest part of doing things differently is the shouting inner critic saying that I failed because I did not sort these things out 20+ years ago. I realize these are only thoughts and feelings and they can pass by. I am using self-compassion by working through the hard feelings by working...
by gfyourself
July 23rd, 2023, 2:34 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
Replies: 7
Views: 1194

Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear

Thanks Oak. This is not easy, is it? Thanks for your reply. [quote=oak post_id=54366 time=1690148897 user_id=2526] [quote=gfyourself post_id=54363 time=1690143125 user_id=2414] … It likes to keep everything the same because it thinks it is helping me. Doing nothing equals avoiding pain. But really i...
by gfyourself
July 23rd, 2023, 2:30 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
Replies: 7
Views: 1194

Re: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it ear

Thank you Mental Fairy. The shame comes from things like Not standing up for myself in the past Not "going for it" Not rebelling against my parents (though perhaps I can give myself a break on that one) Not establishing goals and trying to achieve them, realizing that the journey is import...
by gfyourself
July 23rd, 2023, 12:12 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier
Replies: 7
Views: 1194

I feel lousy about not doing anything, but then I also feel lousy doing it because I feel shame for not doing it earlier

Hello all, its been awhile. I"m an occasional lurker but haven't posted in a long time. Feels like there is a devoted community of a handful of people here... is it 5, 10, 15, 20, 50? Anyway, doesn't really matter the size, I am impressed with the consistency! Anyway, Regarding the subject line...
by gfyourself
May 15th, 2022, 1:51 pm
Forum: Express Yourself
Topic: Do you ever correspond with Paul?
Replies: 9
Views: 3860

Re: Do you ever correspond with Paul?

Haha well he is a big deal!
by gfyourself
May 14th, 2022, 1:19 pm
Forum: Express Yourself
Topic: Do you ever correspond with Paul?
Replies: 9
Views: 3860

Do you ever correspond with Paul?

Too bad he does not come in the forum.
by gfyourself
October 24th, 2021, 1:31 pm
Forum: Podcast Episodes/Surveys
Topic: #562
Replies: 2
Views: 945

Re: #562

Amazing voice.

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