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by oak
May 23rd, 2024, 5:38 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.
Replies: 3
Views: 2043

Re: Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.

Mental Fairy, hi. I’ve been there 3.5 years, with no path up, and AI coming for my job in a few years. (Also, I’m glad your trip is going well!) Friends, I had a necessary talk with my boss. He is a good person who wants the right thing. I’ve escalated this, and gotten it all out to an equally kind ...
by oak
May 22nd, 2024, 12:49 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.
Replies: 3
Views: 2043

Re: Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.

[Edit: here is where I wrote more extraneous stuff. The substance of my dilemma follows.] Larger picture, friends, is not about TPS reports, but how we handle unsatisfactory situations that everyone tolerated for too long. I can’t help but think about Mental Fairy and the courage she has to admit th...
by oak
May 22nd, 2024, 12:37 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.
Replies: 3
Views: 2043

Bookend: difficult talk with boss Thursday. Some doubts.

Hi friends. It has been several months since I've bookended (a bookend is reaching out to friends before and after taking a difficult step in recovery). This time tomorrow I intend to have a difficult talk with my boss, who is generally a good person and supervisor. [Edit: I wrote a bunch of extrane...
by oak
May 20th, 2024, 3:41 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: My summer: like every previous one, but different this time, I swear!
Replies: 4
Views: 1936

Re: My summer: like every previous one, but different this time, I swear!

Thanks to Troebia and Mental Fairy Next steps At free event, I was noticed Thanks to Troebia and Mental Fairy Troebia and Mental Fairy, thank you for your posts and encouragement. The engine of my mind is running a little more smoothly than years previously, and I am getting out more (below). Next ...
by oak
May 20th, 2024, 6:38 am
Forum: PTSD
Topic: Mind Body and Trauma
Replies: 1699
Views: 1912420

Re: Mind Body and Trauma

Mental Fairy, thank you for sharing the lovely photos.

Keep us posted regarding what you learn about your anger.

The answer may come to you in a dream or in a flash of insight.
by oak
May 19th, 2024, 5:57 am
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: My summer: like every previous one, but different this time, I swear!
Replies: 4
Views: 1936

My summer: like every previous one, but different this time, I swear!

Hi friends. This summer I face many of the same sorrows I’ve faced my entire adult life: I am lonely, I need to earn more, I need to continue to lose weight and continue my fitness. That’s part of the reason I’ve curtailed posting here: it is much the same story. Except, happily, in the last few mon...
by oak
May 15th, 2024, 6:58 pm
Forum: PTSD
Topic: Mind Body and Trauma
Replies: 1699
Views: 1912420

Re: Mind Body and Trauma

Hello A difficult reality to face Pop culture suggestions Hello Mental Fairy, hello and thank you for sharing. I hope your trip goes well, and I am very glad to hear you are enjoying your work. A difficult reality to face Thank you for the courage to share about your at-the-breaking-point marriage....
by oak
May 13th, 2024, 2:26 pm
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Introduction
Replies: 7
Views: 3614

Re: Introduction

Welcome!

I'll look forward to your posts with interest.
by oak
May 4th, 2024, 6:23 pm
Forum: PTSD
Topic: Mind Body and Trauma
Replies: 1699
Views: 1912420

Re: Mind Body and Trauma

Mental Fairy! I am sorry things are so difficult. I am glad you are facing them with courage. If I may, considering that my music recommendations have proven useful, can I recommend two of my favorite movies, if you are looking to pass the time? Station Agent (2003) and Operation Finale (2016). Oste...
by oak
May 4th, 2024, 5:42 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Taking a break from the forum. Thanks for everything!
Replies: 11
Views: 6222

Re: Taking a break from the forum. Thanks for everything!

Hi friends. Though I promised to take a break of "about a year", here I am three months later. In addition to saying hello to all my favorites, I am here especially to hopefully send encouragement to our good friend Mental Fairy, who is facing a difficult time indeed. Like I mentioned a fe...

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