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by wendy
December 12th, 2013, 10:48 am
Forum: ADD/ADHD
Topic: Being smart doesn't matter
Replies: 10
Views: 6994

Being smart doesn't matter

I think most people would appreciate being called smart. I hate it. Smart doesn't matter if you can't focus enough to use it consistently, and I can only ever seem to focus enough to use my brains in short spurts. Medication helps, but only so far-- it doesn't get rid of the negative self image, the...
by wendy
December 2nd, 2013, 2:19 pm
Forum: Learning Disabilities
Topic: ADHD?
Replies: 8
Views: 5150

Re: ADHD?

I think ADHD is under diagnosed massively over medicated and severely under addressed. Most people with ADHD don't need medication, I need medication (and take it) because I have severe ADHD, I also need therapy and coaching for it and I'm working on getting the help I need. The medication I take is...
by wendy
December 1st, 2013, 5:16 pm
Forum: Parenting
Topic: this may seem trivial but I need advice..
Replies: 5
Views: 2796

Re: this may seem trivial but I need advice..

I found that using close enough words works for me "funk" "spit" "buzzard", it takes a little while to get into it but it works to curb the habit.
by wendy
November 29th, 2013, 6:07 pm
Forum: Parenting
Topic: Homeschooling special need child
Replies: 10
Views: 4919

Re: Homeschooling special need child

You know, your username alone just makes me want to wrap you up in a hand knit shawl and get you a cup of tea. The fact that you're going through so much of the same stuff makes me want to force you to go to a spa and relax for a few days. I feel you. I researched neurofeedback early on, but as our ...
by wendy
November 12th, 2013, 4:40 pm
Forum: Parenting
Topic: Homeschooling special need child
Replies: 10
Views: 4919

Re: Homeschooling special need child

Yes, to this day, any time he's corrected for doing something incorrectly or not at all it's a deeply personal attack on his existence. It's as simple as "There's a spot on this plate" "I just washed that plate" "I know, but there's a spot you missed" "There can't ...
by wendy
November 5th, 2013, 10:10 am
Forum: Parenting
Topic: Homeschooling special need child
Replies: 10
Views: 4919

Re: Homeschooling special need child

ODD sucks. It sucks for them as children but it sucks a lot for us as moms too. I thought my husband was exaggerating how difficult he found my son to be when we first started dating by comparison to his two children from his first wife. My theory is that working with abused and feral dogs permanent...
by wendy
October 28th, 2013, 9:26 am
Forum: Are you addicted?
Topic: Caffeine
Replies: 3
Views: 1985

Re: Caffeine

Full disclosure: I drink Voltaire levels of coffee and am a total monster without it, I don't do any other drugs (OTC or illicit) and only take medication when it is prescribed. Have you considered switching to tea after the first cup of Joe gets you out of bed? Dry tea vs. dry coffee does actually ...
by wendy
October 28th, 2013, 8:58 am
Forum: Love Off
Topic: My loves
Replies: 6
Views: 2166

Re: My loves

Its almost like you won something.
It really is isn't it? I hadn't thought about it that way until you pointed it out but it is.
by wendy
October 26th, 2013, 10:45 am
Forum: Love Off
Topic: Not a list, more like one-per-post
Replies: 1
Views: 1810

Re: Not a list, more like one-per-post

I love your love too. I also love the fact that you taught me a new word today. Pavera.

How cool is that?
by wendy
October 26th, 2013, 10:26 am
Forum: Love Off
Topic: My loves
Replies: 6
Views: 2166

My loves

I love finding a new keiki on an orchid. I love going to start a chore only to find that someone else has already done it for me. I love it when I'm walking my dog and a little kid will rush up to pet her. I love the sound of rain in the desert. I love that my 16 year old son still makes artwork for...

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