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- September 21st, 2014, 10:44 am
- Forum: Sexuality
- Topic: Women: I am trying and searching for you.
- Replies: 14
- Views: 5718
Re: Women: I am trying and searching for you.
I'm sorry that you're not getting positive reactions to all your hard work. I agree with the previous posts. As you know, it's been years since I've dated, but wanted to share some thoughts. The difference between the nice guys that I didn't date (more than a few times or at all) and the nice guy I ...
- September 15th, 2014, 5:57 am
- Forum: Body Image
- Topic: Appearance..ugh
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3478
Re: Appearance..ugh
Quick post for a few resources - again, some of these might be a bit obvious, but I wanted to post anyway: http://www.chocolatehairvanillacare.com/ This is a hair care website mostly for non-black adoptive moms. What might be good about this site is that it assumes you know nothing about black hair ...
- September 10th, 2014, 5:40 am
- Forum: Grief/Bereavement
- Topic: Lost my "dad" today
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2032
Re: Lost my "dad" today
I'm so sorry for your loss. I read your post a few days ago and have been thinking of how hard this must be for you. But, I also felt thankful - thankful that, finally, a good person stepped up in your life and demonstrated what a quality individual could be to you. Demonstrated how important you ar...
- September 9th, 2014, 6:50 am
- Forum: Body Image
- Topic: Appearance..ugh
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3478
Re: Appearance..ugh
One more thing that might be very obvious: I have found a number of resources about hair braiding and care for my kids via yahoo and various websites. Have you tried any of these - if nothing else, it could give you a sense of foundation about your hair. I could send a few if they help. Also, if you...
- September 9th, 2014, 6:43 am
- Forum: Body Image
- Topic: Appearance..ugh
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3478
Re: Appearance..ugh
Once I left the beautician that was in "cahoots" with my mom about her hair, I don't feel worried about going anymore, but I do tend to put beauty items off. I'm not a big makeup or hair cut person. I too have curly hair and have done some straightening, although it didn't damage my hair g...
- September 8th, 2014, 2:51 pm
- Forum: Eating Disorders
- Topic: the ocd component to ED is so hard
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3696
Re: the ocd component to ED is so hard
I do remember my days of ED and the crazy number of rules that I had developed. Luckily, I got over most of my ED by the end of college with the support of friends and family. However, to this day, I still need to evaluate whether my attempts to eat healthier or differently are heading me toward the...
- September 8th, 2014, 1:32 pm
- Forum: Body Image
- Topic: Appearance..ugh
- Replies: 8
- Views: 3478
Re: Appearance..ugh
If you haven't seen it yet, the thread about how long have you gone without showering might be of interest to you. I too have a mother who constantly talked about how my hair did or didn't look - this while every 3-4 months taking me to her beautician's and getting my hair cut short enough that I fr...
- September 8th, 2014, 7:47 am
- Forum: Discuss the podcasts.
- Topic: Episode 189: Lance L
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2541
Re: Episode 189: Lance L
While I don't have anything similar to Lances's issues, I thought that Lance's episode was quite interesting. There have been very few podcasts with people of color. Add in his sexual orientation, history of abuse and his mom and dad's negligence of his needs.....yeah, it was interesting to hear. I ...
- August 21st, 2014, 2:42 pm
- Forum: Grief/Bereavement
- Topic: RIP Mr. Watie, 1962-2014
- Replies: 30
- Views: 12328
Re: RIP Mr. Watie, 1962-2014
I have been wondering about you and hoping that you have been hanging in there.
- August 21st, 2014, 12:21 pm
- Forum: Body Image
- Topic: Longest period of NOT bathing? Let the games begin!
- Replies: 24
- Views: 10609
Re: Longest period of NOT bathing? Let the games begin!
Amazing idea for a post-I was very excited to read this thread. Definitely have gone at least a week several times when camping and/or hiking (I'm assuming a one-time, getting dumped out of a canoe doesn't count.) I don't remember, but I'm sure I went a while in college - probably a week as well. I ...