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by Dragonfly
April 5th, 2016, 7:15 pm
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: I feel dirty posting this.
Replies: 4
Views: 2980

Re: I feel dirty posting this.

Olive.. Oh sweetie. The abuse you have suffered so extensively breaks my heart as well! Good for you for trying therapy. Not all therapists are an automatic fit or the right one for you, so after a few times, maybe try another. That being said..maybe what you are feeling is some of that visceral pai...
by Dragonfly
April 5th, 2016, 6:29 pm
Forum: Anxiety
Topic: Money Anxiety
Replies: 13
Views: 5528

Re: Money Anxiety

Hi. I have anxiety about money also. I am anxious about not having any....not having enough of it....becoming homeless and starving and being stuck at that level until I die. Might I suggest some things that may help? If your anxiety comes from where oak suggests...the banks, the capitalist system, ...
by Dragonfly
March 8th, 2016, 8:13 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Shame: no gf in nine years.
Replies: 21
Views: 8331

Re: Shame: no gf in nine years.

Oak, How wonderful that you talked....dare I say flirted? ....with a pretty lady today! Very good! I have always found confidence in men very attractive. I hope you feel at least a little proud of yourself for displaying courage despite your nagging demons that suck the wind from your sails. Just as...
by Dragonfly
March 8th, 2016, 12:32 am
Forum: Trauma/Abuse/Violation
Topic: Reached out to a support group, but now I'm too nervous
Replies: 3
Views: 2322

Re: Reached out to a support group, but now I'm too nervous

Ovoce, From what you described, you were most definitely violated. Many, many survivors (myself included) know and may even be in a sexual relationship with their abusers. Anytime a partner does something that hurts/scares/violates the other partner, it can be sexual abuse or rape. For example, if a...
by Dragonfly
March 7th, 2016, 11:51 pm
Forum: Tired & Looking: An Honest Place to Seek A Partner
Topic: Newly Single -
Replies: 6
Views: 3409

Re: Newly Single -

Hello Meh.. I see you posted about your separation in February. Since it's almost a month later, how are you doing? Are the two of you seeing a counselor to work on the issues or are you just taking a break? I am not anywhere near NY, but I wanted to see how you were doing and say you have empatheti...
by Dragonfly
March 6th, 2016, 7:37 pm
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Hello!
Replies: 2
Views: 2588

Re: Hello!

Greetings! I am new here too, and am already finding nice, great people!
by Dragonfly
March 6th, 2016, 7:21 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Shame: no gf in nine years.
Replies: 21
Views: 8331

Re: Shame: no gf in nine years.

Dearest Oak and SallieMae, I can empathize with both of you and just from reading the posts from both of you, I would go on a date with either of you! I am in a relatively small area, population wise, and even smaller in open-mindedness. I have a fear of trusting men because of a lot of past harm, b...
by Dragonfly
March 5th, 2016, 12:43 am
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Newbie
Replies: 3
Views: 2782

Re: Newbie

Thank you much for the welcome! I'm excited to be here. :dance:
by Dragonfly
February 18th, 2016, 6:52 pm
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Newbie
Replies: 3
Views: 2782

Newbie

Hello all. I recently discovered Paul's podcasts and then this site. I struggle with more than one thing on a daily basis, much like most people. I am 40 and am single. I look forward to meeting people here and learning what I can! :D

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