YOU ARE NOT ALONE - A companion online community discussion board for The Mental Illness Happy Hour podcast with Paul Gilmartin

The reality TV producer (Somebody’s Gotta Do It) opens up about his depression, social anxiety, history of unrequited love obsessions – especially as a kid, getting sober from prescription opiates and smoking speed thru a broken light bulb!

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Unrequited love sucks. But please, men, stop using the term "friendzone" when a woman you like doesn't return your feelings. It's dismissive, entitled, gross, and reeks of "nice guy syndrome" ( see here in comic form). Apologies if this is covered at all later in the interview, it bothered me enough that I had to turn it off.

Post by E is for Elephant » August 5th, 2016, 10:38 am

Unrequited love sucks. But please, men, stop using the term "friendzone" when a woman you like doesn't return your feelings. It's dismissive, entitled, gross, and reeks of "nice guy syndrome" ( see here in comic form). Apologies if this is covered at all later in the interview, it bothered me enough that I had to turn it off.

Alternative suggestions?

THANK YOU! I almost turned it off, I felt the same way. It would have bothered me less if it was acknowledged that it was a harmful attitude, but it never really was.