YOU ARE NOT ALONE - A companion online community discussion board for The Mental Illness Happy Hour podcast with Paul Gilmartin

At 16 he was playing drums at CBGB and Max's Kansas City as the punk scene exploded. After destroying his career (Pianosaurus, King Missile) he got sober. The PsyD & MFT explains his extensive work with treating trauma victims (especially those with addictions) by using EMDR. He talks about the difficulty people have in calling what happened to them "trauma" and why the label isn't important. He shares his personal experiences and insights about bullying, Buddhism, self-sabotage, spirituality, depression and what being a "good person" means to him.

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I am thinking that this Dr. Steve is the same Dr. Steve that appeared years ago on Maron's WTF podcast before he had finished school to become Dr Steve. His appearance on WTF long ago had a deep and memorable impact on me. In that interview he talked about a long and dark depression, a depression that he glossed over quickly in this interview with Paul. While talking about it with Maron, he said something that hit me like a ton of bricks and has stuck with me ever since the first time I heard it. He said something to the effect of "I could not remember the last time that I had a positive future based thought".

I felt like Dr. Steve had a lot to talk about with regards to mental illness from an experiencer's perspective, not just as a doctor in the mental illness field. I wondered if he had used medication to get through that time in his life, but, because he hardly talked about it, it was never brought up. If memory serves, I believe that during his depression, he was nearly catatonic & somehow ended up in a zen monastery where he immediately felt safe, and his mental health recovery began. I felt like Dr. Steve talking about his own experience with mental illness would've created more of a connection with the MIHH community.

I don't usually have strong opinions about how interviews could've been different, but there is a lot more to Dr Steve's story than he talked about in the ep., as someone who was deeply impacted by hearing Dr Steve's story on Maron's WTF podcast, I highly recommend listening to his WTF ep. if you ever get the chance.