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I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 18th, 2023, 4:41 am
by wild_flower
I feel stuck at home living with my narcissistic mother, narcissistic brother and my mums partner. I am 39 and am out of work and am basically the family slave and my mums emotional punching bag. She gets stuck into me every day and I can't take it anymore. I feel like my only way out is death. I am really struggling right now.

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 18th, 2023, 1:35 pm
by manuel_moe_g
I am sorry to hear that, Wild_Flower

I wish I had the ability to remove you from this unfair situation

You deserve better

Please keep the lines of communication open

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 19th, 2023, 4:46 am
by wild_flower
Thanks that's really nice of you

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 19th, 2023, 5:34 pm
by snoringdog
Hello Wild-Flower,

You're under a lot of mental stress right now it appears.
I feel like my only way out is death. I am really struggling right now.
That's worrisome. Do you have a friend you can call?

We're here to listen, for what it's worth. :wave:

SnoringDog

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 23rd, 2023, 5:13 am
by wild_flower
I don't have many friends. The ones I do have just tell me I am being a victim by complaining about my mum and I shouldn't let her treat me like that and that other people have it worse. It feels so isolating to heat that.

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: September 23rd, 2023, 2:17 pm
by brownblob
Ooh. The old others have it worse so you have no right to feel how you feel. People have no idea how to talk to a depressed person.

Re: I feel like I am out of options

Posted: October 4th, 2023, 3:28 pm
by wild_flower
That's like saying don't be happy, because others are happier