"I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited

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Manuel Moe, thank you for sharing, as difficult as this news is.

There are no easy answers.

Feel free to borrow experience/strength/hope from us. You are definitely not alone.


Keep us posted.
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Thank you, Oak
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the other shoe has dropped, sure, and the shoe is bouncing on the floor, i guess you could say

surprisingly love won out over hate

not out of the woods yet, still have the issue of the world being too eager to throw away my loved one

but at least our little family can fight together to overcome this
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manuel_moe_g wrote: June 30th, 2022, 4:56 am surprisingly love won out over hate
Word.

All of us, and especially you, Manuel Moe, can use a good surprise.

Please continue to keep us posted.
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I'm glad there was some light despite the heartache you & your loved ones are experiencing, Manny. And I'm glad that you have each other.

Take care of yourself.

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Manuel Moe, good day.

Any new word?
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My loved one was mercilessly thrown away by the world and it hurts me to see it. Contingency plans are being pursued. Thank you for caring so, Oak.
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It’s not an easy thing, to take up space emotionally.

But you’re doing great.
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my loved one was humiliated without any regard at all. the world is so mean, so many unspoken rules. and the punishments are so disproportional.

i wish i could take on the burden from my loved one, but that is not how that works. i can just be supportive and listen
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Hello Manny,

I wish we could help.

Is it helpful to say that "humilation" is only in the eye of the beholder?

So - Fuck Them - !! They know nothing, and they're not worth dwelling on....

What counts is your connection to, and your support of your loved one.
Make this clear to them. (as I know you will.)

You are a good man.

SD
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