"I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
Still waiting for that other shoe to drop, but now have a bit of a plan. Went to therapy session along with my suffering loved one, tears were shed but it was healing. It really struck me how easily the world could throw away my loved one. Moral emptiness is the state of the world.
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
Manuel Moe, thank you sharing. You are not alone.
This situation is difficult. I am glad you have a plan, however provisional.
Keep us posted.
This situation is difficult. I am glad you have a plan, however provisional.
Keep us posted.
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A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
Hello Manny,
It's really good that you could talk about the problems together.
Moral emptiness indeed! It's a struggle to look for the good and to keep things in balance.
Wishing you both the best.
SD
It's really good that you could talk about the problems together.
Moral emptiness indeed! It's a struggle to look for the good and to keep things in balance.
Wishing you both the best.
SD
Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
I'm glad you were able to find a little bit of healing, Manny Moe. I'm sure your loved one doesn't deserve to be thrown away, and neither of you deserve to suffer. Thank you for keeping us posted.
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
You guys rule!
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
Manuel Moe I hope some weight has lifted off those shoulders you carry. Breath can pass without a quiver or cry. It’s unfair when the people whom help you can’t take that pain away. But as we all know we need to feel it as it’s healthy too. It’s how we deal with it that’s the key.
So very much I’m awe of how you cope with so much going on. Admire your strength.
So very much I’m awe of how you cope with so much going on. Admire your strength.
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
I think you can be great MM…
… if you stop trying to be…
… even for 60 seconds…
You can still be great without your foot constantly planted on the gas.
You’re not going to drop all the way to failure everytime you ease off a little; or even a lot.
As scary as it may feel, resting is great.
… if you stop trying to be…
… even for 60 seconds…
You can still be great without your foot constantly planted on the gas.
You’re not going to drop all the way to failure everytime you ease off a little; or even a lot.
As scary as it may feel, resting is great.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
The shoe has finally dropped. Much suffering. I am so weak to help
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
We are here for you. Oceans don’t seperate support
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Re: "I am nothing, I am a nobody", revisited
Thank you, Mental Fairy. I wish I could give the details but it is not my story to tell. I must live moment by moment and keep busy
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