Hi Mental Fairy! Thank you for your post
Mental Fairy wrote: ↑December 6th, 2022, 11:53 am
Your goals i would like to hear about...
Sure!
My main goal
My main goal has several subsidiary or supporting goals.
My main 2023 goal: dinner at 5:15 pm each night.
This necessitates a 100% work from home position.
This implies that I have someone to share it with, someone feminine (see below).
This also implies dinner being a small, vegan situation before I go to yoga or martial arts in the evening.
Supporting goal #1: Compete in the November 2023 strength competition.
This also implies flexibility and nutrition (see above!).
Though I wholly do fitness for me, I have noticed young ladies noticing me (see below!)
Supporting goal #2: Spend time around feminine energy
Happy little update: For the third time in my life I received a compliment about my looks (many men go a lifetime without a compliment): an acquaintance told me that I am "easy on the eyes".
I am working with my mental health counselor, this week, on preparing a script to invite out young ladies.
I mention this because I've been flirted with twice in the last two months, unambiguously, and was so astonished I totally shut down.
(Note: I don't pursue women. Both found ways to chat me up. And I just froze both times.)
Next steps, for this month
I think these efforts (kettlebell "rack and jerk" motions and inviting out young ladies who give unambiguous signals) deserve their own thread.
Mental Fairy wrote: ↑December 6th, 2022, 11:53 am
... as i have not set any but am worried if i do, i will let myself down. I seem to have a habit of doing that.
Maybe you can consider the following, my friend?
What is your 2023 plan for ducks?
In honor of my plant-based efforts, did you try giving them celery?
Can you order a duck-shaped cookie cutter, and then give the resulting cookie-ducks each a Christmas hat-icing?
https://www.amazon.com/Rubber-Duck-Cookie-Cutter-Plated/dp/B07C7Q7GTW
I ask you (kindly), Mental Fairy: what is your duck plan?