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fear of asking women out on dates
Posted: February 11th, 2023, 5:54 pm
by manuel_moe_g
I remember my great shame from my fear of asking women out on dates
it brought me great shame in high school, college, and as a young adult
but, hilariously, i now realize i was struggling so terribly back then, it was a blessing to not subject my awfulness on a young woman back then
Re: fear of asking women out on dates
Posted: February 11th, 2023, 6:52 pm
by oak
Speaking for both of us, Manuel Moe, if I may:
We were not good men.
Or, to put the best spin on it, we were in the process of becoming better men.
Like you, I cringe at who I was. I had a girlfriend who loved me unconditionally, when I was still drinking, and I was callous to her. Her love was beautiful, and for her sake I'm glad I didn't marry her. She deserved better.
I send some forgiveness to you.
Re: fear of asking women out on dates
Posted: February 11th, 2023, 9:32 pm
by Mental Fairy
You’re both very loveable.
Re: fear of asking women out on dates
Posted: February 12th, 2023, 7:02 pm
by Beany Boo
Don’t wait for perfect before you start to wading in.
Wade in first and do your best to stay ready.
That’s what I tell myself in any case.