Checking in on Saturday
Posted: April 1st, 2023, 9:25 am
Hello friends,
Things feel precarious today, as they often do on weekend mornings. I apologize in advance for how mundane this post is, but it somehow helps to write this and know that it may be read.
I tried to reach out to my brother last weekend and it was a complete failure that ended with him hanging up on me. I was able to talk to his wife after that, and it was okay, but I still feel bruised by the whole experience and more alone than before.
I'm getting a Covid booster today. I'm not worried about the vaccine, but I'm worried because I have to skip my RA medication for it to be effective, and when I did that with an earlier booster it caused several weeks of a painful flare up and permanent partial hearing loss/tinnitus.
Sometimes I can just allow the grief and loneliness to be there here without resisting. Sometimes even a small connection with anyone helps. I feel both gratitude for any connection, even with a stranger, but at the same time it never feels like what I really need.
So, my plans are to go out to do a little shopping after the vaccine, then pick up Italian takeout for our dinner that my mom requested. This evening I plan to do laundry, work on taxes, and catch up this forum with you beautiful people
Thank you for being here.
rg
Things feel precarious today, as they often do on weekend mornings. I apologize in advance for how mundane this post is, but it somehow helps to write this and know that it may be read.
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I tried to reach out to my brother last weekend and it was a complete failure that ended with him hanging up on me. I was able to talk to his wife after that, and it was okay, but I still feel bruised by the whole experience and more alone than before.
I'm getting a Covid booster today. I'm not worried about the vaccine, but I'm worried because I have to skip my RA medication for it to be effective, and when I did that with an earlier booster it caused several weeks of a painful flare up and permanent partial hearing loss/tinnitus.
Sometimes I can just allow the grief and loneliness to be there here without resisting. Sometimes even a small connection with anyone helps. I feel both gratitude for any connection, even with a stranger, but at the same time it never feels like what I really need.
So, my plans are to go out to do a little shopping after the vaccine, then pick up Italian takeout for our dinner that my mom requested. This evening I plan to do laundry, work on taxes, and catch up this forum with you beautiful people
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Thank you for being here.
rg