Mind Body and Trauma
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manuel_moe_g
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
He finds your ***shine*** threatening
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Mental Fairy
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
Never thought of it like that. He said I was just a trophy wife that he kept on the shelf. Apparently after the separation I’m a broken trophy you keep in the basement.
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manuel_moe_g
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I really hated to hear he would downplay to others your high level of medical professional skill and ability
Love means always talking up your partner’s skills and abilities, at least that is what it means to me
Love means always talking up your partner’s skills and abilities, at least that is what it means to me
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Mental Fairy
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
I agree with that completely. He can be so nice when he wants to be. It’s so confusing.
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troebia
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
A person that says that type of thing can be expressing that deep down they feel they don't deserve to be with you. And "keep" means "dominate and subjugate" here.Mental Fairy wrote: ↑September 16th, 2024, 4:52 pm He said I was just a trophy wife that he kept on the shelf.
"Most people are other people" — Oscar Wilde
"Those who dream of the possible will suffer the greatest disillusion" — Fernando Pessoa
"Those who dream of the possible will suffer the greatest disillusion" — Fernando Pessoa
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manuel_moe_g
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Yes, Troebia has hit the nail on the head
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snoringdog
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
Hello Mental Fairy,
A few comments, a bit harsh, I'm sorry.
Hmm. Passive aggressive after two visits? Seems a little strange to me, like he felt he was coerced into going or something and was resisting...
And "trophy wife"? wow. From here, that sounds pretty weird and possibly demeaning. What the hell is he talking about? One the one hand, you're just a fish monger, and on the other you're a trophy?
What wonderments is he bringing to the table in exchange? And what does "reconcile" actually mean in his mind?
A few comments, a bit harsh, I'm sorry.
Hmm. Passive aggressive after two visits? Seems a little strange to me, like he felt he was coerced into going or something and was resisting...
And "trophy wife"? wow. From here, that sounds pretty weird and possibly demeaning. What the hell is he talking about? One the one hand, you're just a fish monger, and on the other you're a trophy?
What you've enjoyed and found solace in before you met him, AND all the people you go with? That's a ridiculous ask.My ex husband wants to reconcile if I cut the mountain out of my life and all the people I go with.
So, he wants to lobotomize you and live with a zombie?
What wonderments is he bringing to the table in exchange? And what does "reconcile" actually mean in his mind?
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Mental Fairy
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
I am here! I will be back to update. Just juggling things. We now moving not just the location of our surgery but also my location to love!
Also I now have braces on my teeth! Omg
Also I now have braces on my teeth! Omg
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Mental Fairy
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
I mean location to live
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snoringdog
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Re: Mind Body and Trauma
We already know your location to love.. 
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