What does one say?
Posted: November 24th, 2022, 8:50 pm
You pick up the phone, you dial the number. No amount of time or role play can prepare you for the conversation you are possibly going to have.
Anxious levels 7/10
Dismay levels 9/10
Professional level 10/10
She answered, you conduct your well versed lines.
Hi ….. it’s Gia here from your specialist clinic.
We have your results in and I have compiled all your results ready for review before a panel of specialists whom meet every Wednesday to discuss the presenting cases from all our specialists in the central hub.
The discussion and decision-making will take place and we will notify you on where and when your surgery takes place.
Sadly there has been masses located in both your ovaries, bowel, thyroid glands and possibly your bladder. We will do our level best to provide you with all information as it is communicated with us over the coming week.
The silence starts, the boiling of the atmosphere starts to pop in your airs, the anticipation of the questions heightens.
The questions I got was this
What do I tell my kids?
Do they take cases by level of importance and whom is closer to death than others?
What do I do?
Why do I feel so powerless over my own body, I want it out now. Take it please, take it out.
Begging for life, begging for answers, now yesterday, the day before.
What did I miss?
How do I end my life sooner if it’s going to be a hard death? (What death isn’t?)
What plans do I make?
Is it in my brain?
What do I tell my kids?
It’s the worse case scenario isn’t it? It won’t be benign will it? What grows in multiple places and not be cancer?
What would you do?
Please tell me what to do, please help me how to feel?
Gia, please tell me what I am meant to do, please.
My reply….
Hold your kids, tell them you love them unconditionally, hug them with meaning, and let it linger. Kiss them extra at night before bed. Feel the breeze, soak in the moments no one else sees. Admire your body for it has served you and now we must try and fix it.
Brush your teeth, brush your hair, don’t neglect.
Get angry, get sad, experience laugher for what it is.
But for gods sake tell the people you care about you love them even if you have never meet their true selves.
Write things down, colour things in, read, watch, feel, show yourself when you hurt, and allow us to help.
I will do my level best to support you.
***now this is why I’m here***
Some people need to help me too because I need to help you.
Anxious levels 7/10
Dismay levels 9/10
Professional level 10/10
She answered, you conduct your well versed lines.
Hi ….. it’s Gia here from your specialist clinic.
We have your results in and I have compiled all your results ready for review before a panel of specialists whom meet every Wednesday to discuss the presenting cases from all our specialists in the central hub.
The discussion and decision-making will take place and we will notify you on where and when your surgery takes place.
Sadly there has been masses located in both your ovaries, bowel, thyroid glands and possibly your bladder. We will do our level best to provide you with all information as it is communicated with us over the coming week.
The silence starts, the boiling of the atmosphere starts to pop in your airs, the anticipation of the questions heightens.
The questions I got was this
What do I tell my kids?
Do they take cases by level of importance and whom is closer to death than others?
What do I do?
Why do I feel so powerless over my own body, I want it out now. Take it please, take it out.
Begging for life, begging for answers, now yesterday, the day before.
What did I miss?
How do I end my life sooner if it’s going to be a hard death? (What death isn’t?)
What plans do I make?
Is it in my brain?
What do I tell my kids?
It’s the worse case scenario isn’t it? It won’t be benign will it? What grows in multiple places and not be cancer?
What would you do?
Please tell me what to do, please help me how to feel?
Gia, please tell me what I am meant to do, please.
My reply….
Hold your kids, tell them you love them unconditionally, hug them with meaning, and let it linger. Kiss them extra at night before bed. Feel the breeze, soak in the moments no one else sees. Admire your body for it has served you and now we must try and fix it.
Brush your teeth, brush your hair, don’t neglect.
Get angry, get sad, experience laugher for what it is.
But for gods sake tell the people you care about you love them even if you have never meet their true selves.
Write things down, colour things in, read, watch, feel, show yourself when you hurt, and allow us to help.
I will do my level best to support you.
***now this is why I’m here***
Some people need to help me too because I need to help you.