Hey Jose.
I am glad you are still posting in this thread: it shows that you still have hope.
With just a little hope, that is all you need.
Ten years ago I was in your situation, and worse. I took very specific steps, and while I still am not where I should be, I am a rake.
If you want to flirt, or all the better to be flirty, then there are definite steps you can take.
Many men have been where you are. Some have availed themselves of ways to learn about the game of love, and gone on to great success.
Remember that your worth is not dependent on your success with women.
Still, flirting is one of life's great pleasures. One never knows when it will come in handy.
Will I ever get laid?
To start a discussion post as a new topic.
Re: Will I ever get laid?
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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