Financial wake up call
Posted: March 23rd, 2013, 10:52 am
I am associating "seminal moment" with what I call, "Slap across the face" moments. When I have a physical reaction to a realization about myself or others. Mostly myself. I'm sure I go pale or flush, depending on the moment, and it hits my stomach, knotting it right away.
Anyhow - I recall with such clarity, sitting on my chair in my living room at 28, thinking about my financial situation, I had to make $$ for a trip to NYC my mom was taking us (sis) on. I was/am terrible with money, made some really poor decisions in my 20's (who hasn't!), and found myself struggling with shitty credit. At that moment I felt that, "slap across the face", and said to myself, out loud I should say... "Get your shit together! You're going to be 30 in a couple of years and your finances are a joke!"
At that moment I decided to make myself a proper budget and deal with it. Even after going through more unemployment than employment the following couple of years, working 2 jobs sometimes. I can now say that I've done pretty well! I'm really proud of myself. I still struggle, but my credit is back on track and shit is getting paid off.
Anyhow - I recall with such clarity, sitting on my chair in my living room at 28, thinking about my financial situation, I had to make $$ for a trip to NYC my mom was taking us (sis) on. I was/am terrible with money, made some really poor decisions in my 20's (who hasn't!), and found myself struggling with shitty credit. At that moment I felt that, "slap across the face", and said to myself, out loud I should say... "Get your shit together! You're going to be 30 in a couple of years and your finances are a joke!"
At that moment I decided to make myself a proper budget and deal with it. Even after going through more unemployment than employment the following couple of years, working 2 jobs sometimes. I can now say that I've done pretty well! I'm really proud of myself. I still struggle, but my credit is back on track and shit is getting paid off.