Hi,
Just over a month ago, I told my wife I wanted to separate. It was horrible. Since then we've tried relationship councilling and it has just got worse. Considering I want to leave I've found her technique of shouting and demanding I change and telling how bad a treat her to be rather odd.
Yesterday I said enough is enough. The separation is now not negotiable, it's happened.
I'm moving out early next week.
We have a 20 month old daughter. It's very hard.
My wife and I are seperating
- bigeekgirl
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Re: My wife and I are seperating
I'm sorry, neufena.
It sounds like the separation is necessary but that doesn't make it less painful. Hopefully, being apart will allow you the space to co-parent without getting verbally abused.
I wish you peace.
It sounds like the separation is necessary but that doesn't make it less painful. Hopefully, being apart will allow you the space to co-parent without getting verbally abused.
I wish you peace.
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Re: My wife and I are seperating
I'm sorry this happened, but this sounds like a bad situation that you need to remove yourself from. It's heartbreaking that you will be separated from your child as well. Take care of yourself.
I don't like people much and they don't much like me. -A Beautiful Mind
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I'm Homesick for a home I never had.--Soul Asylum "Homesick"