Goals lab
- Beany Boo
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Goals lab
1. Open a goldfish fishing business
2. Watch the entire series of Friends dubbed in Japanese
2. Watch the entire series of Friends dubbed in Japanese
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
Re: Goals lab
Interesting!
Please explain more about the goldfish.
Please explain more about the goldfish.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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Inspired by this and Manuel Moe.
My thought is, future goals should bring your current capabilities to life, in the present. In this example, the idea of small children and 80 year olds side by side, engaged in the same activity does that for me.
I can’t name the capability, but I feel more capable with that as one of my future goals.
https://www3.nhk.or.jp/nhkworld/en/onde ... o/4026121/
My thought is, future goals should bring your current capabilities to life, in the present. In this example, the idea of small children and 80 year olds side by side, engaged in the same activity does that for me.
I can’t name the capability, but I feel more capable with that as one of my future goals.
https://www3.nhk.or.jp/nhkworld/en/onde ... o/4026121/
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Have you been to Japan, BB?
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Yes, to Tokyo a few years ago. I seem to spend time weekly connecting with Japanese culture in one way or another though; food, clothes, paper, stationery, online content, books, films. I don’t really understand why, I just accept it’s happening. There’s a thread of profound sadness, and joy, running through it which moves me deeply.
The capability the goldfish pond goal makes come alive in me is my cultural learning/teaching.
The capability the goldfish pond goal makes come alive in me is my cultural learning/teaching.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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3. Breathing easily while playing ukulele in a market band on a Saturday afternoon.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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BeanyBoo, #3 feels like pure joy to me and the visual of it makes me happy.
Can you relate to this? Sometimes when something profoundly sad is happening to me, there's a small part of me that is so satisfied, it's banging its knife and fork on the table and saying with satisfaction, "we are living, and feeling".
Can you relate to this? Sometimes when something profoundly sad is happening to me, there's a small part of me that is so satisfied, it's banging its knife and fork on the table and saying with satisfaction, "we are living, and feeling".
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Yes for sure. A satisfying sadness; that you can show and share, and also hopefully see in others is what I am always aiming for. In a world threatened on all sides by crushing and organized boredom, sadness is a life force; a wellspring.
It’s a moment you want to never end.
It’s a moment you want to never end.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: Goals lab
Goal 2 version 2: Potter around another language until it becomes sentences that form relationships with other speakers.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: Goals lab
Goal 4: Validate the women around me, during a normal day, in the what I say and the role I play.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi