Mindfulness
- manuel_moe_g
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Re: Mindfulness
Congratulations Beany! I look up to you, turning simple sleep hygiene into spiritual gifts
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Re: Mindfulness
Hi Beany,
I'm glad your new sleep hygiene experiment is producing positive results.
If I'm remembering correctly, I think you once wrote about the mental benefits of clean sheets. Just last week I thought of that when I was having some sleep issues. I washed all my bedding and the cleanly washed cool sheets did help me sleep better somehow.
rg
I'm glad your new sleep hygiene experiment is producing positive results.
If I'm remembering correctly, I think you once wrote about the mental benefits of clean sheets. Just last week I thought of that when I was having some sleep issues. I washed all my bedding and the cleanly washed cool sheets did help me sleep better somehow.
rg
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Re: Mindfulness
Thanks MM and RG
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‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: Mindfulness
First night of interrupted sleep. Directly related to abuse by a coworker. I reported the incident and requested a day off rather than work without having slept. The first time I’ve openly requested what would qualify as mental health leave.
Thankfully the coworker will be leaving soon to join another team.
It was nice to experience interrupted sleep as the exception amidst consistent sleep as the norm.
I didn’t feel that bad actually. It just felt sensible to take the day off to avoid making fatigue-related errors.
It paid off. I regularly feel compelled to “tell” myself something in the hope of improving my mood. I got to the place this afternoon at home where I told myself, “you don’t have to say anything to yourself”. That made me feel safe in a new way.
Thankfully the coworker will be leaving soon to join another team.
It was nice to experience interrupted sleep as the exception amidst consistent sleep as the norm.
I didn’t feel that bad actually. It just felt sensible to take the day off to avoid making fatigue-related errors.
It paid off. I regularly feel compelled to “tell” myself something in the hope of improving my mood. I got to the place this afternoon at home where I told myself, “you don’t have to say anything to yourself”. That made me feel safe in a new way.
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: Mindfulness
I am really impressed with how much mental and emotional work you have tied into this sleep hygiene strategy.
So Zen.
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Re: Mindfulness
Thanks MM
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: Mindfulness
So Zen. Yes.
"The sound of you not saying anything to yourself...."
"The sound of you not saying anything to yourself...."
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Re: Mindfulness
Thanks SD
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
Re: Mindfulness
Nice. Well done.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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Re: Mindfulness
Thanks Oak
Mr (blue) B. Boo
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi