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by sandy
March 4th, 2013, 6:42 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: Paul - Thank you for building this community
Replies: 5
Views: 1362

Re: Paul - Thank you for building this community

I have tinnitus too. I used to have insomnia every night until i finally realized that the quieter things were in the room the louder it got. I bought a $15 sound machine and i now i sleep great. good luck
by sandy
March 4th, 2013, 5:37 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: whats your worse day ever?
Replies: 3
Views: 767

Re: whats your worse day ever?

thank you both. i'm trying not to feel sorry for myself. i know its not a game. i was just in shock. 20 years of my life it's just dead and gone. i wanted to remind myself others have it much worse and I just need to buck up and work toward a new future. a better future. i'm thinking of moving close...
by sandy
March 3rd, 2013, 4:28 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: whats your worse day ever?
Replies: 3
Views: 767

whats your worse day ever?

I really want to know because mine is today. no joke it's worse than the time i was raped at 13. my husband of 20 years told me he has been fucking some hot russian whore and she's pregnant. I think I could deal with the fucking. him fucking someone would be a walk in the park. we tried for 15 years...
by sandy
May 27th, 2012, 10:53 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: AARRRRGGGGHHHHH Have to visit my mother tomorrow!
Replies: 4
Views: 1021

Re: AARRRRGGGGHHHHH Have to visit my mother tomorrow!

Your mom sounds like my sister. Total, manipulative nut job. I'm so glad I haven't seen her in 4 or 5 years. I had some things that I used to do that helped me keep my cool and not join in the crazy. First I tried to imagine someone was filming us. You can even imagine whoever you will talk to later...
by sandy
May 20th, 2012, 6:51 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: Hi All
Replies: 8
Views: 1379

Re: Hi All

Hi Ryan, I'm having the same problem with my counselor. She only seems concerned if I'm going though a crisis, she doesn't seem interested in digging into and figuring out my long term problems. You said about the uncontrollable shaking that you've never had trauma. If I saw evidence that my dad bea...
by sandy
May 20th, 2012, 5:54 am
Forum: Discuss the podcasts.
Topic: Dr. Zucker #1
Replies: 25
Views: 9067

Re: Dr. Zucker #1

Paul, I just watched a new PBS show on Johnny Carson and his relationship with his mother reminded me of you with yours. It was just heartbreaking the way she withheld approval. He tells a story of calling her all excited because he found out he will get the Governor's award and she says "well,...
by sandy
April 22nd, 2012, 5:50 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: high stress, please help
Replies: 14
Views: 2159

Re: high stress, please help

Well, we manged to get my brother out of my house. He took a job in another state. My husband dropped him off at the bus station this morning. I've been feeling guilty for kicking him out. He has a job to do all week but on weekends he will be homeless and carless. Then I took a look at my spare roo...
by sandy
March 26th, 2012, 2:14 pm
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: high stress, please help
Replies: 14
Views: 2159

Re: high stress, please help

I'm working on this to give my brother. I waiting for my husband to call to see if he agrees with all the details. I'm so glad I had this forum, just imagining a sympathetic ear or two makes me feel better. (brothers name) I'm writing this down so that you don't forget it later. (husbands name) and ...
by sandy
March 26th, 2012, 11:34 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: high stress, please help
Replies: 14
Views: 2159

Re: high stress, please help

I am trying not to freak out here. I made myself an appointment, but its not for 3 days. I am so uneasy thinking about him spending the past 3 days focusing entirely on the supposed "abuse" he is suffering. It's as if he is in a feedback loop and he can't think about anything else. i told ...
by sandy
March 26th, 2012, 9:45 am
Forum: Introduce Yourself Here
Topic: high stress, please help
Replies: 14
Views: 2159

Re: high stress, please help

I set limits. I told him he had 3 weeks to find a job. His reply? "you are violated my civil rights by viciously denying me access to the internet. i am documenting this. I have a right to access the internet." what the hell? he is living in some kind of fantasy world where I am a dictator...

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