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by EmeraldArcher
December 11th, 2016, 9:26 am
Forum: Love Off
Topic: I need to spend more time focusing on things I love
Replies: 4
Views: 1820

Re: I need to spend more time focusing on things I love

I love my mom. She's funny and smart. I love a juicy steak with a baked potato. I love going to the grocery store, especially the produce aisle. Just seeing all those fresh green herbs, the colorful fruit, and everything in bloom cheers me up. I love reading a good book at night in bed. I like how I...
by EmeraldArcher
October 25th, 2016, 6:02 pm
Forum: Depression - Unipolar (non BiPolar)
Topic: Don't think anyone will care if you die?
Replies: 6
Views: 2505

Re: Don't think anyone will care if you die?

The brutality of life astonishes. We know full well that none will make it out alive. And yet we laugh. Is that folly or deep wisdom?
by EmeraldArcher
October 9th, 2016, 8:08 pm
Forum: Anxiety
Topic: Spent the whole day in the hospital
Replies: 11
Views: 3961

Re: Spent the whole day in the hospital

Thanks brownblob. Depression is awful and it's pretty hard sometimes. I'm really glad I found this podcast. Actually someone from a support group turned me on to it. It's great to find a place where people understand mental illness.
by EmeraldArcher
October 5th, 2016, 6:10 pm
Forum: Anxiety
Topic: To take drugs or not to take drugs
Replies: 7
Views: 3057

Re: To take drugs or not to take drugs

There's a significant difference between taking a pill prescribed by a doctor for an illness you have and taking a pill because you feel like it. I don't see a good reason to feel worse about taking an antidepressant than you would about taking an antibiotic. You're being responsible and you're obey...
by EmeraldArcher
October 5th, 2016, 5:59 pm
Forum: Anxiety
Topic: Secular meditation?
Replies: 12
Views: 4756

Re: Secular meditation?

I use an mp3 I found on Amazon that I really like. It has no religion or spirituality in it. It's all psychology and mental imagery. It's called "Feel Good" and it's by Bonnie Groessl. It's $1.29 or free if you have Amazon Prime.
by EmeraldArcher
October 5th, 2016, 5:51 pm
Forum: Anxiety
Topic: Spent the whole day in the hospital
Replies: 11
Views: 3961

Re: Spent the whole day in the hospital

Once when I was going through a really stressful and depressing part of my life, I went to an ER because I felt myself physically shaking uncontrollably. The doctor was so condescending and kept trying to convince me that nothing was physically wrong with me. She said, "It doesn't look like you...
by EmeraldArcher
October 4th, 2014, 3:02 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Who am I? Who cares, just be pretty.
Replies: 4
Views: 2191

Re: Who am I? Who cares, just be pretty.

I'm amazed that you spent nearly two hours getting ready before school every day. What were you getting out of it? You mentioned a girl complimenting your eyebrows. Were you looking for approval from other girls? Were you trying to get boys to notice you? I also wonder if, back then, you ever said t...
by EmeraldArcher
October 2nd, 2014, 9:16 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: TTAFTWAR: Crushing on unavailable women
Replies: 4
Views: 2318

Re: TTAFTWAR: Crushing on unavailable women

A lot of people call what you're describing as being an "emotional boyfriend" as being in the friendzone. It's a bit ironic that people talk about the "friendzone" as if it were no-man's-land when normally, being a friend is a beneficial part of life. I am no stranger to the frie...
by EmeraldArcher
September 26th, 2014, 6:37 pm
Forum: Sexuality
Topic: Involuntary Celibacy
Replies: 18
Views: 9273

Re: Involuntary Celibacy

Hey Mort24, My relationship situation is a lot like yours but also somewhat different. I'm 32 and I've only had two relationships that I consider serious. I'm a Muslim and I am waiting until I get married to have sex, but I really thought I would be married by now. I thought for a long time that I w...

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