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by hooboy
January 14th, 2018, 5:22 am
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Happy, content: I took action today.
Replies: 3
Views: 997

Re: Happy, content: I took action today.

That's wonderful news, Oak! High-five!
by hooboy
January 13th, 2018, 6:29 am
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Beginning to see how I was back then
Replies: 1
Views: 906

Beginning to see how I was back then

I'm in my 40's now. In my 20's and 30's I was an alcoholic. Since about age 38, I've calmed it down a lot, with stretches of teetotalling sobriety, but there were always moments that I thought I'd be able to come back to it and just have ONE. I don't need to tell anybody here that that's a lie the m...
by hooboy
January 6th, 2018, 6:15 am
Forum: Avoidant Personality Disorder
Topic: Since I suggested it, I'd better use it, right?
Replies: 30
Views: 10413

Re: Since I suggested it, I'd better use it, right?

Hi all, I don't have a firm diagnosis either, but all of the reading I've been doing lands me pretty firmly in Avoidant-land, I'd say. Very co-dependent/people pleasing, high functioning in my work, but I will bend myself into a pretzel to avoid conflict, or standing up for myself. My body literally...
by hooboy
January 6th, 2018, 5:42 am
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Hello from Hibernation!
Replies: 6
Views: 2722

Re: Hello from Hibernation!

Hiya BGG! Oooo, I went to a drop-in support group for the first time a couple of weeks ago. (Because I'm self employed, my work schedule is erratic, and consistency is something I really can't promise with group attendance, sadly.) It was definitely something I can see the benefit of, even though th...
by hooboy
January 4th, 2018, 5:14 am
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Hello from Hibernation!
Replies: 6
Views: 2722

Re: Hello from Hibernation!

Thanks for the replies, BrownBlob and Oak! I am scrolling through many a post on many a board, and may just throw my neck out from nodding a lot! :)
by hooboy
December 31st, 2017, 5:47 am
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: Hello from Hibernation!
Replies: 6
Views: 2722

Hello from Hibernation!

Hi there, I can't be the only person that is hibernating indoors, knitting, and downloading every unplayed episode onto my phone...oh man, it's kind of the best. Well - I'll introduce myself and my issues. Super dysfunctional upbringing, avoidant/judgmental father, mother w/ undiagnosed issues of va...
by hooboy
December 30th, 2017, 5:58 am
Forum: Introducing yourself!
Topic: I will introduce myself over my dead body...apparently
Replies: 9
Views: 3237

Re: I will introduce myself over my dead body...apparently

Hi LeendertHasABox, I'm new here too, and your post hit home for me. I get all adrenalized all over again when I start trying to put my thoughts in order on a page - usually because they are racing so fast that my fingers can't keep up. But I guess that's part of the process of things? By writing it...

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