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by Heatherwantspeace
September 10th, 2020, 3:42 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Covid Neurosis?
Replies: 2
Views: 301

Re: Covid Neurosis?

Caesar, the only thoughts I have are to limit exposure to the news or really anything conflict related, including games or movies. It's the only thing that keeps the anxiety down for me. Still, it's always there, running in the background. Whenever I see a vid of someone freaking out over having to ...
by Heatherwantspeace
September 10th, 2020, 3:36 pm
Forum: Relationship Troubles
Topic: a better response
Replies: 11
Views: 2069

Re: a better response

Beany Boo, can you explain further? I'm not sure I understand.
Oak, it runs through everything, not just food. He wants to please, I don't like the feeling of being treated like I'm more important.
by Heatherwantspeace
September 10th, 2020, 3:33 pm
Forum: Relationship Troubles
Topic: a better response
Replies: 11
Views: 2069

Re: a better response

I guess the thing is, Brownblob, that for me half the joy is in the sharing. Like if you go somewhere with a beautiful view and you have someone there to say "Wow" to and they say "Yeah". (I don't want to suggest this is true for you and your partner. She may greatly appreciate y...
by Heatherwantspeace
September 10th, 2020, 3:22 pm
Forum: Express Yourself
Topic: Happy memory
Replies: 3
Views: 1206

Re: Happy memory

I love this!
Heather
by Heatherwantspeace
September 10th, 2020, 11:00 am
Forum: Relationship Troubles
Topic: a better response
Replies: 11
Views: 2069

a better response

Hi Everyone, I'm looking for advice. This is a scenario that plays out in different ways with my partner. Here is the latest version: I bought some apricots, put them in a bowl on the counter and have been having one every day or so. I noticed I was the only one eating them. I asked my partner, don'...
by Heatherwantspeace
September 8th, 2020, 6:53 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Not misogyny: delightful encounters
Replies: 7
Views: 486

Re: Not misogyny: delightful encounters

6 years ago, I was walking across a parking lot and a man...tipped his hat at me! I suddenly understood what swooning was.
It was romantic, and that was all. I felt safe and seen.
by Heatherwantspeace
September 8th, 2020, 6:51 pm
Forum: How Do You Feel Right Now
Topic: Not misogyny: delightful encounters
Replies: 7
Views: 486

Not misogyny: delightful encounters

We're having a lovely second summer here. Today, I wore a fun print summer dress with a flippy skirt. As I passed a man (15-20 years younger than me) he said, You look pretty today! There was no sexual overtones. He wasn't commenting on how attractive he found me, but more a kind of "I can see ...
by Heatherwantspeace
September 6th, 2020, 9:46 pm
Forum: I Just Really Need a Hug
Topic: Feeling low
Replies: 10
Views: 4724

Re: Feeling low

Hey Brownblob, for the record, I had a meltdown 2 weeks ago and needed the help of my therapist and my doctor. Hang in there.
Heather
by Heatherwantspeace
September 3rd, 2020, 11:51 pm
Forum: Love Off
Topic: My On-Going Loves Thread
Replies: 7
Views: 1435

Re: My On-Going Loves Thread

Great to hear from you Tony.
Heather
by Heatherwantspeace
September 3rd, 2020, 11:49 pm
Forum: I Just Really Need a Hug
Topic: Feeling low
Replies: 10
Views: 4724

Re: Feeling low

I'm sorry you're having a hard time, Brownblob. Big hugs to you.
Heather

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