Troebia's strange thoughts poll

[troebia]

Given the silence after my "xxx" post, I'd like to do a poll about whether that kind of stuff is adequate for this forum.

[snoringdog]

Just to confirm, you mean the fantasy role playing vids, right?
As long as its two consenting adults giving and receiving pleasure....

I read it as an honest exchange, with some thoughtful analysis.

[troebia]

Just to confirm, you mean the fantasy role playing vids, right?

Thank you for replying, SD. Well, I am referring to anything regarding sexual desires and fetishes. There's more to mention but it's not something I want or need to without meaningful discussion.

Btw, the poll is anonymous. .

[Mental Fairy]

I found your posts powerful, open and brave.

I apologise if I went quite, it was not intentional. Wednesday, Thursday Friday and Saturday I do 12 hour shift. I am reading your posts but have limited time to chime in with deep thoughts. What I like is I read them and mentally chew on them from time to time during my shift.

Troebia I value your opinions greatly.

[troebia]

Thank you MF.
Poll results also seem to say that I'm free to continue my musings about sexuality. MTK.

[Mental Fairy]

Got the green light from down here!

[snoringdog]

A couple of thoughts

The latest episode -
Margo Steines is a Dominatrix turned welder turned author.
Haven't listened yet, but her book has received a number of stellar reviews from mainstream publications.

I'm sure there have been episodes on bondage before. Totally outside my realm. How does this desire come about? (I guess I can imagine, but interesting to hear).

Fetishes -
Can't say I have any, I'm pretty plain-vanilla, but what came immediately to mind is the well-documented "foot fetish" that apparently was explored by Freud.

Turns out there may be a biological basis for it, in the way the brain structures are juxtaposed?
In the category of synesthesia...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot_fetishism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Synesthesia

[troebia]

SD, I've now listened to the episode you mention.

Margo Steines is a Dominatrix turned welder turned author.

To me she sounded toxic and full of herself, a person who takes attention from men for granted. She practically admits that it's more about ego tripping than sexual enjoyment for her. I also disliked her constant California vocal fry and the occasional upspeak...

Btw I once had a very short relationship with a woman who only wanted to do it doggy style and insisted I spanked her ("Harder! Harder!") at the same time. Maybe it had something to do with childhood abuse but I wasn't around long enough to find out It seemed like something completely compulsory and involuntary for her, she needed the pain.

Can't say I have any, I'm pretty plain-vanilla, but what came immediately to mind is the well-documented "foot fetish" that apparently was explored by Freud.

Feet...maybe. I have a thing for women walking in heels, maybe also in sheer pantyhose or leggings. I guess it has something to do with the stereotypical hyper-feminine, the delicateness. I'll admire and appreciate the effort she's done voluntarily. I don't get any of that in my relationship.