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Little mnemonics that I remember for the days of the week -

Friday = "Kinyobi", like I kin stay out later because it's not a week night...

Saturday = "Doyobi", like I can doy a lot of things on my day off..

Monday = "Getsyobi", like I have to get up to go to work...

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Subgoal 6a: Stand ready and smack micro-aggressions over the side fence like they’re tennis balls. Or practice steadily until I can.
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Subgoal 5b: Just let tension happen; a necessary part of connection to others.
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I’ll remember Friday because it’s similar to goldfish; kinyobi, kingyo
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Subgoal 5c: Expect love without being a ‘good person’
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Subgoal 6b: get comfortable with being naughty (the role you had as a child)
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Goal 7: Learn while afraid
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Very good. Keep us posted.
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Subgoal 7a: let the lies in education fly
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I'm intrigued by that last one, especially!
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