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What are some good things happening in the midst of all this for you? For me:
-small businesses showing flexibility, courage and innovation by becoming completely new businesses! My local coffee shop has turned into a takeout taco place
-community support of essential workers. People are putting hearts, thanks you's and other messages in windows, trees, and on signs
-pajama/sweat pants culture. like school uniforms, we have all suddenly become equal in our dress and grooming
-my brother has been in touch more, replying to my emails. It's all I ever wanted
-my partner is doing a few renos. I'm putting a timecapsule in the wall with a newspaper and a bit of a diary entry. It's fun to imagine someone finding it in 30-50 years when they already know how the story turns out

Stay well.
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This is such a great list, Heather!

I guess for me, it would be gratitude for things I usually take for granted, like food.
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thanks, MM! I appreciate your contribution.
Right now my partner is on the phone with his son who he hasn't spoken to in 2 years (there have been texts). As Oak said, we have slid down Maslow's pyramid to the very core of our survival values. There is a lot to celebrate in that.
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Has anyone found that their daily anxieties have all faded away? I have no brain space left for even my childhood traumas. In a twisted way, I have learned to live in the moment.
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Good post, Heather. Thanks for sharing.

I’ve been astonished at the good spirit of hourly grocery store workers. I am ashamed, instinctively, when I see their effortless nobility, and remember how we treat them, specifically how we pay them.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
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With the streets empty, my midnight walk to my car after my shift feels so safe. Tonight I listened to music on headphones as I strolled in the cool air, looking up at the full moon. A moment of pure peace that I never imagined would be possible.
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"Easter bunny confirmed as essential worker" "May need to substitute product as supply available" "may need to bring in local help"
This, of all things, brought a tear to my eye. If we can hold onto our small joys, there is room for hope.

I don't know about your corner of the world, but drive-by birthday celebrations (esp for 6 year olds) have become a thing here. All invited to honk and shout!

Hold fast.
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We have become friends with the neighbour across the street, who generally keeps to themself. All by virtue of the time we're spending out front.
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Both of those updates are lovely. Thanks for sharing.
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