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Beany Boo
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I relinquish the desperate and unrelenting struggle for horrible certainty
And fall back into perfect confusion
And think, ‘what the fuck is actually happening?’
And feel lucid, curious and able to breathe
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‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan

‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb

‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Beautiful, BB. Thank you for posting.
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Thank you for sharing, Beany Boo.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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Life is breathtakingly repetitive. So, okay.
Mr (blue) B. Boo

‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan

‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb

‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Yes, sometimes the repetition is comforting, and sometime excruciating,,,
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Post by Heatherwantspeace »

Beany Boo, I've been wanting to say for awhile how much I am astounded by your approach to things. While I will occasionally peer into the darkness, you will jump in and let it wash over you and let things land where they land. It's amazing to watch.
Heather
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Post by Beany Boo »

I know, it’s a thing.

The scary part is holding a boundary where one doesn’t necessarily sit. Hopefully that gives the other person enough context to process what I’m saying, as supportive.

Thank you Heather.
Mr (blue) B. Boo

‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan

‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb

‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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