body stances for self-compassion
- manuel_moe_g
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body stances for self-compassion
body stances for self-compassion
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[*] butterfly-hug hands on chest
http://www.thestoryelves.com/the-butterfly-hug/
[*] open-arm for acceptance - inviting energy in
[*] when walking, shoulders up straight, chin up
[*] in mirror, smile at myself - this is hard, i may have to prompt a smile by thinking of my daughter and my wife
i have to get self-compassion down first, Super-Choice will have to wait a bit
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[*] butterfly-hug hands on chest
http://www.thestoryelves.com/the-butterfly-hug/
[*] open-arm for acceptance - inviting energy in
[*] when walking, shoulders up straight, chin up
[*] in mirror, smile at myself - this is hard, i may have to prompt a smile by thinking of my daughter and my wife
i have to get self-compassion down first, Super-Choice will have to wait a bit
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
I am glad this has helped you, Manuel Moe.
And thanks for link: I’ve tried it, supplementing my beloved tai chi.
And thanks for link: I’ve tried it, supplementing my beloved tai chi.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
- manuel_moe_g
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
Yes, Oak, try these body stances to welcome in self-compassion into your day.
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- manuel_moe_g
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
Depression hit me today, not too hard.
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- manuel_moe_g
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
Feel less depressed.
Was thinking, I am 50 now, and even at 47 I didn't fully comprehend the magnitude of the challenges I lived under because of chemical imbalances in my brain and also my upbringing. I really was "behind the 8-ball" for most of my life, and even now I am still scrambling to meet the challenges of my situation.
No matter how I feel about it, it is still true.
I was very lonely for a large portion of my life, because people could correctly see that I was a ball of self-hatred and an unpredictable, volatile soul not worth investing any time in.
It is a slow, agonizing process to crawl out of that hole.
I took a walk earlier, now would be a good time to practice my body stances for self-compassion.
Everything good starts with self-compassion.
If you are reading this, thanks for listening. The butterfly hug and the arms extended really helped, I even smiled at myself in the mirror.
I am so fortunate I can start today.
Was thinking, I am 50 now, and even at 47 I didn't fully comprehend the magnitude of the challenges I lived under because of chemical imbalances in my brain and also my upbringing. I really was "behind the 8-ball" for most of my life, and even now I am still scrambling to meet the challenges of my situation.
No matter how I feel about it, it is still true.
I was very lonely for a large portion of my life, because people could correctly see that I was a ball of self-hatred and an unpredictable, volatile soul not worth investing any time in.
It is a slow, agonizing process to crawl out of that hole.
I took a walk earlier, now would be a good time to practice my body stances for self-compassion.
Everything good starts with self-compassion.
If you are reading this, thanks for listening. The butterfly hug and the arms extended really helped, I even smiled at myself in the mirror.
I am so fortunate I can start today.
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
I don’t know if it was intended but what you’ve just written MM rings with self-compassion.
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‘Out of nowhere the mind comes forth.’ - Zen koan
‘Let go or be dragged.’ - Zen proverb
‘Knowing how to yield is strength.’ - Laozi
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
Yes Manny, I'm reading this....
A positive & hopeful post. You seem to be making good progress.
Good to see!
SD
A positive & hopeful post. You seem to be making good progress.
Good to see!
SD
- manuel_moe_g
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
doing self-compassion with physical body stances is easier for me than trying to do it mentally.
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
I am glad you continue to make progress.
Please continue to share: we want to hear how you are doing, what you are thinking.
Please continue to share: we want to hear how you are doing, what you are thinking.
Work is love made visible. -Kahlil Gibran
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
A person with a "why" can endure any "how". -Viktor Frankl
Which is better: to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort? -Skyrim
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Re: body stances for self-compassion
"Your brain is attached to a body, and it wants to use it"...